Wednesday, October 15, 2008

We are so appalled......

We are not ones to be politically active, but this year there is a proposition that is on the ballot that our family is very passionate about. It's PROP 8. some of you are probably thinking what????? Please do your research and please vote on November 4th. To give you some info PROP 8 will state in the California State Constitution that marriage is only recognized between a man and a woman. Some of you might remember PROP 22 (marriage defined only between a man and a woman) back in 2000. It passed but 4 judges overturned the decision that 61% of Californians voted in favor for. We are disgusted at the judicial system. Some might be saying why vote now. It doesn't matter, but it does.... we don't want our children being taught that marriage can be between anyone. It goes against our moral beliefs. If PROP 8 does not pass there will tons of ripple effects. That will be another post... Please check out www.protectmarriage.com
Since the 4 judges overturned the decision look what is happening.....do you want this to be forced onto your children, grandchildren, or you????? This is no longer about tolerance!!!!!! We have friends that are gay and we are by no means judging them, but we don't need or want their lifestyle shoved down our throat's or children's throat....... it is not a civil rights issue......

Class Surprises Lesbian Teacher On Wedding Day10/14/2008 Page 1 of 2
Class Surprises Lesbian Teacher On Wedding Day
Jill Tucker, Chronicle Staff Writer
Saturday, October 11, 2008
A group of San Francisco first-graders took an unusual field trip to City Hall on Friday to
toss rose petals on their just-married lesbian teacher - putting the public school children at
the center of a fierce election battle over the fate of same-sex marriage.
The 18 Creative Arts Charter School students took a Muni bus and walked a block at noon
to toss rose petals and blow bubbles on their just-married teacher Erin Carder and her wife
Kerri McCoy, giggling and squealing as they mobbed their teacher with hugs.
Mayor Gavin Newsom, a friend of a friend, officiated.
A parent came up with the idea for the field trip - a surprise for the teacher on her wedding
day. "She's such a dedicated teacher," said the school's interim director Liz Jaroflow.
But there was a question of justifying the field trip academically. Jaroflow decided she
could. "It really is what we call a teachable moment," Jaroflow said, noting the historic
significance of same-sex marriage and related civil rights issues. "I think I'm well within the
parameters."
Nonetheless, the excursion offers Proposition 8 proponents fresh ammunition for their
efforts to outlaw gay marriage in California, offering a real-life incident that echoes their
recent television and radio ads.
"It's just utterly unreasonable that a public school field trip would be to a same-sex
wedding," said Chip White, press secretary for the Yes on 8 campaign. "This is overt
indoctrination of children who are too young to have an understanding of its purpose."
The trip illustrates the message promoted by the campaign in recent days, namely that
unless Prop. 8 passes on Nov. 4, children will learn about same-sex marriage in school.
"It shows that not only can it happen, but it has already happened," White said.
California Education Code permits school districts to offer comprehensive sex education,
but if they do, they have to "teach respect for marriage and committed relationships."
Parents can excuse their child from all or part of the instruction.
On Friday, McCoy and Carder, both in white, held hands on Newsom's office balcony
overlooking the rotunda and recited their vows.
Class Surprises Lesbian Teacher On Wedding Day10/14/2008 Page 2 of 2
"With this ring, I thee wed!" Carder said, shouting the last word for emphasis.
After traditional photos, the two walked out City Hall's main doors where the students were
lined up down the steps with bags of pink rose petals and bottles of bubbles hanging from
their necks. McCoy, a conferences services coordinator, was in on the surprise and
beamed as the children swarmed around Carder.
The two said they have participated in the campaign against Proposition 8 and planned to
travel around San Francisco on Friday afternoon in a motorized trolley car with "Just
Married" and "Vote No on 8" banners.
The two met on a dance floor two years ago. "This is one girl I can honestly say deserves happiness, and it came in the form of Kerri,"
said Carder's friend Dani Starelli.
Creative Arts administrators and parents acknowledged that the field trip might be
controversial, but they didn't see the big deal. Same-sex marriage is legal, they noted.
"How many days in school are they going to remember?" asked parent Marc Lipsett. "This
is a day they'll definitely remember."
Carder's students said they were happy to see their new teacher married.
"She's a really nice teacher. She's the best," said 6-year-old Chava Novogrodsky-Godt,
wearing a "No on 8" button on her shirt. "I want her to have a good wedding."
Chava's mothers said they are getting married in two weeks.
The students' parents are planning to make a video with the children describing what
marriage is to them. Marriage, 6-year-old Nolan Alexander said Friday, is "people falling in love." It means, he added, "You stay with someone the rest of your life."
As is the case with all field trips, parents had to give their permission and could choose to
opt out of the trip. Two families did. Those children spent the duration of the 90-minute
field trip back at school with another first-grade class, the interim director said.
"As far as I'm concerned, it's not controversial for me," Jaroflow said. "It's certainly an
issue I would be willing to put my job on the line for."
E-mail Jill Tucker at jtucker@sfchronicle.com.
This article appeared on page A - 1 of the San Francisco Chronicle

1 comment:

  1. When I first read this on the website I yelled out loud NO FREAKIN WAY! If Prop 8 doesnt pass it is going to be a sad day. Home schooling will be seriously considered or private school.

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